R-7 On, Being Mean.

To write mean is so easy.

Pick a person. And you’ll be surprised how deeply offending you can be. Point out all the insecurities of the said person and you can have them crying inside and out if you’re good enough, in no time. It’s literally that easy. Making someone cry with compliments is a sight I’ve only seen on TV.

You can write a long mean paragraph on anyone. Even someone you met only for moments Because it’s said

When you meet someone for the first time, you’re most likely to remember their flaws, better than anything else.

I think we all need to maybe make Being Polite mainstream, maybe then people would follow it. The stature at which the Internet is at right now, is both very helpful but frightening at the same time. The kids are no doubt growing up in an age where Connectivity will never be a Hurdle.

But, they are also growing up in an age which is soooooo Toxic, that it’s literally Horrifying. I know we’ve all read this before but I mean, there’s a reason it keeps coming up, don’t you think?

You try playing even a random game with different people online and, They’ll start cursing you for having a kpop profile photo, soon as they start loosing. I mean, this is just an example but I feel you can get my point.

I’m not saying that cursing is a measure to Judge someone’s character. I curse too. (and, This is a whole other rant topic.) But, what I’m saying is we’ve made being toxic a neutral. When it shouldn’t be.

Texting Mean. Cursing on anything. Being Toxic. And covering it in the name of “This is my opinion and I get to voice it, if you hate social media so much, just get off it”, is Not. Okay.

Yes, it’s Your opinion. Own it, good for youuu. But your delivery can be a little softer, that’s all I’m trying to say. Be a little more Polite. You don’t have to pounce on an individual. If you have opinions, others do too. If you’re not going to change yours, just like that, they’re not going to change their’s either.

If you don’t agree with someone you don’t have to Cancel. Everyone’s. Valid.

There’s sooo much more, I want to say. But, I think I’ll try to keep this one shorter this time. It’s already gotten long enough.

Until, the next one.

Published by Sarvagya

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9 thoughts on “R-7 On, Being Mean.

  1. ‘we’ve made being toxic a neutral’….being toxic has become ‘normal’ and ‘acceptable’….not a good path for society to take…I could extend this to other not-good things for society which are being accepted as OK…..not good

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  2. Thanks for this. It’s a really good point, and something I need to remain aware of. I so often see people cry because of compliments, and it’s something that I really need to treasure. I had forgotten how rare that can be. Thanks for this. Thanks for your words.

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  3. This is lovely 👏🏽 and it reminds me of a what’sapp page I was one some couple of years back. So there was this girl on he page that sends insulting comments to people (don’t know what she got from it) and she tried it with me on one occasion then I decided to put her in her place 😂 let’s just say it did not end well, turns out she can’t handle what she always dished out and she left the group page on that day.

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    1. This is exactly what I meant you know they can never take it when it comes to themselves. And they incite such negativity and toxicity for all those who have to read and go through. Only few have the courage at times to fight back like you did 🙌🏻🙌🏻

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